Stephen R. Newsome
Get him talking about his yard and his
projects and Stephen Newsome can go on forever.
Jane Fishman
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There's the 2,500-gallon koi pond he built for
the grandmother who raised him; the six
neighborhood dogs that seem to sense his big
heart; the hundreds of special banana seeds he
plans to germinate and sell; the transformers he
bought off Ebay that he also hopes to sell.
Framed by scads of elephant ears, Newsome's
house, where he's lived most of his life, sits
on a jam-packed corner lot in Meldrim on
property his grandfather once owned.
"There's nothing like growing up in a
small town," he said of his Effingham
County roots. "This is the best town in the
world. I'm never going to live anywhere
else." Newsome, 32, is all about family,
all about community. The woman he married three
years ago – his high school sweetheart –
grew up on his street, Withlacoochee, "in
the last house on the left."
When his grandfather, who has since passed
away, had a stroke, Newsome left Georgia
Southern University to care for him. To make
money, he started a pressure-washing business,
sold cars and, briefly, worked as a bellman at
the Radisson.
After that, without missing a beat or
thinking twice, he moved his grandmother, who
has Alzheimer's, into his home and under his
care. And this summer, when his wife, Jackie,
was diagnosed with cancer, Newsome took an
eight-week break from his job as a freight
conductor with CSX railroad to help her through
four rough surgeries.
It was right around this time he saw the fire
across the street. "It was 10:30 or so at
night and I was walking around the house,
checking on the dogs, talking on the phone, when
I heard a car horn blow a couple times," he
said. "That's when I noticed Mr. Bill, an
elderly guy who's on oxygen, standing next to
his Toyota truck."
He knew something was wrong because his
neighbor, whose wife passed away last year,
rarely walks at all, let alone at night.
Then he saw the orange glow in the windows.
He ran through his front door, threw the phone
to his wife, told her to call 911 and grabbed
his railroad lantern and fire extinguisher.
"When you have a grandmother with
Alzheimer's you know where everything like that
is," he said.
By this time a neighboring teenager had
showed up. He tried to enter the house, but came
out choking from smoke. "I tried crawling
in on my stomach," Newsome said, "but
I wasn't getting anywhere so I ran back home,
grabbed a 100-foot hose and hooked it up to his
water spigot."
Because he used to play in that house as a
youngster, Newsome found the water faucet
immediately. "I also knew where the power
box was so I slapped the power off, too,"
he said.
When he slithered back in with the hose, he
saw the man's electric scooter on fire. He also
saw the chair with the oxygen.
"Then I saw 10 more bottles of oxygen
all in a row and I thought, 'I'm fixing to
die,'" Newsome said, tears filling his eyes
at the memory. "I hate to tear up like this –
I'm really sorry – but I started thinking
about what my family would do without me. My
grandma's everything to me and after everything
my wife's been through..."
With the hose, he and his neighbor John put
out the fire in about 15 minutes. Today, Mr.
Bill is staying with relatives in Florida. His
house stands damaged and empty.
"It's so strange," Newsome added.
"When I was 10, I used to go over to that
house all the time and hang out with the man who
lived there. Most people thought he was mean,
but I kind of liked him. He'd tell me about the
war. I actually saved his life in this very same
house years later too."
But then, Newsome has a habit of seeing the
best in people and of following that vision with
action.
This weekend, Newsome's grandmother, who
everyone calls Granny, is joining other
relatives for a 10-day cruise, the cruise a gift
from her grandson. On Saturday, Newsome joins
his wife, who works in accounts payable at
Candler, for a fund-raising cancer awareness
walk in Forsyth Park.
Then, on Saturday night, Newsome heads over
to the Meldrim Halloween Carnival, which raises
money for the Meldrim Civics Club, where he's
agreed to be the target in the "Dunk the
Hero" booth.
"I think about the fire all the
time," Newsome said. "What happened,
what could have happened. It's not that I did
anything amazing. I was just lucky I knew where
everything was."
The way Meldrim is lucky to have him.
Jane Fishman's column runs Wednesday, Friday
and Sunday. She can be reached at gofish5@earthlink.net
or at 652-0313.